In a large bowl, whisk together cornmeal, salt, baking soda, and baking powder; whisk in buttermilk and 1 tablespoon oil. Gradually whisk in 2 cups boiling water until well combined. Let batter stand for 10 minutes. Stir in okra and cheese.
Preheat oven to 200°. Place a wire rack on a large rimmed baking sheet.
In a large skillet, heat remaining 1 tablespoon oil over medium-high heat. Drop batter by about 2 tablespoonfuls into skillet, and cook until golden brown, about 2 minutes per side. Transfer to prepared rack, and keep warm in oven. Serve immediately with Bacon Butter and honey.
Recipe by Paula Deen Magazine at https://pauladeenmagazine.com/okra-hoecakes-recipe/